You know that feeling when you’re just exhausted? Swiping through countless profiles, battling insecurities, and trying to decipher whether a single date could lead to something beautiful? The clock ticks, the nights blend into one another, and every “we should do this again” feels like a tiny hoax. You’re searching for connection but are haunted by the fear of rejection and heartache. 😔
In the midst of all that chaos, I had a moment—a stark realization—that changed everything. While on a retreat in Denver, I found myself enmeshed in meditation, blissfully lost in a vivid vision of holding a child’s hand on the beach. The warmth of their tiny fingers wrapped around mine was a sensation I couldn’t shake. And then, I heard it, gently but clearly, whispers from my heart, nudging me to create love in my life. 💖
You see, Dr. Joe Dispenza talks about this mystical balance—surrendering to the universe while holding your intentions close. 💡 I wanted a conscious relationship, a partnership grounded in excitement and fearlessness. With a list in my pocket, I dove headfirst into the New York dating scene, meeting nearly 100 people in mere months. The thrill was palpable yet exhausting; each encounter felt like a dance between hope and skepticism. But what I came to realize is that my heart had its own agenda, giving me unmistakable signals about who to let into my life. 🛑
So, I walked away from all the attractive options that seemed like they could ignite something special. Imagine the strength it takes to trust your heart over the allure of what looks good on paper. I was tired—tired of searching, tired of feeling inadequate, and exhausted from navigating the noise of potential love interests. I made the bold choice to stop. I swiped left on the last dozen profiles and surrendered to what lay ahead.
Then, without warning, I received a message from one of those last twelve. Everything aligned; he had an inkling that turning down our first date would be a mistake. When he entered that café, time paused. It felt like magic—the energy crackled between us. The moment was surreal; my friend beside me even exclaimed, “I think that’s your date!” It was as if the universe was finally saying, “Here’s the love you’ve been waiting for.”
In the two years since, beneath the surface of my marriage, I realized this was the conscious relationship I had envisioned all along. But it wasn’t easy. Overcoming fear isn’t just a choice; it’s a journey. Every ounce of past trauma that colored my view had to be addressed. The voices in my mind—those loud, sometimes cruel whispers—were replaced with the soothing refrain of my heart. 🎶
I genuinely believe that if you believe, behave, and become what you seek, then how could you not be met with your heart’s desire? The work you put into yourself radiates outward, transforming every relationship and interaction. Everything else falls into place beautifully when you embrace this truth.
So, if you find yourself grappling with the chaos of your own heart, know that there’s a path, a guide. The actionable steps to help you connect deeply with your heart’s true desires can be found in Believing, Behaving, Becoming Abundance. 🌟
Believe in yourself, and take that pivotal step toward your own journey of self-discovery. Your heart is waiting, and everything else will work itself out. 🚀
